{"id":2945,"date":"2017-03-17T09:02:58","date_gmt":"2017-03-17T16:02:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thewayoftheriver.com\/?p=2945"},"modified":"2017-03-17T09:02:58","modified_gmt":"2017-03-17T16:02:58","slug":"delight-desires-discernment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thewayoftheriver.com\/delight-desires-discernment\/","title":{"rendered":"Delight, Desires, and Discernment"},"content":{"rendered":"

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In David Whyte\u2019s poem \u201cThe Old Interior Angel,\u201d he comes to a long\u00a0bridge over a seemingly unbridgeable chasm. A bridge so long, so thin, and so frightening, that he finds he cannot bring himself to cross it.<\/p>\n

And then this happens (from the Christian Century<\/em> blog called \u201cAsh Wednesday: A Time for Self-Compassion\u201d):<\/p>\n

He [David Whyte] sat down on the ground and stared at the bridge for hours, unable to proceed. \u201cThere are times when the hero has to sit down,\u201d he said later. \u201cAt some bridges in life the part of you that always gets it done has to sit down.\u201d Then an old Tibetan woman came along, gathering yak dung for fuel. She walked with a limp. \u201cNamaste<\/em>,\u201d she said with a smile. Then she turned and limped across the bridge. Immediately, without thinking, he rose up and followed. Sometimes, he realized, it is \u201cthe old interior angel,\u201d the unheroic, limping, unequipped part of ourselves, that gets us to the other side. [The quotations here from Whyte are from his cd on Self-Compassion.]<\/p>\n

\u201cSometimes the part of you that always gets it done has to sit down.\u201d<\/p>\n

Amen?<\/p>\n

\u201cSometimes the part of you that always gets it done has to sit down.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sometimes you cannot rely on your skill or your experience or your knowledge or your talent.<\/p>\n

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Sometimes you just must wait for the angel, the leading, the invitation from God, the waiting arms of the Goddess, for some of us, even the sheer force of necessity can overwhelm the terrifying fear.<\/p>\n

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But sometimes you just cannot do it alone.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you need to sit and wait until the angel comes and says (as the one in Whyte\u2019s poem did), \u201cNamaste,\u201d the divine in me recognizes the divine in you. So you can say, \u201cNamaste, and follow.\u201d<\/p>\n

What bridges are you feeling unable to cross? Whom do you need to follow to cross them, and how are you to find that friend, that “old interior angel”?<\/p>\n

Are they cultural bridges? Theological bridges? Bridges of phobia or mental instability?<\/p>\n

So whom or what can you follow?<\/p>\n

For some of us, the Bible is the answer. Psalm 37:4\u2014\u201cDelight in Adonai, and Adonai will give you the desires of your heart.\u201d Delight in God. Delight<\/em> in God, and God will get you across the bridge of your secret hopes. That\u2019s how that reads to me.<\/p>\n

\u201cDelight in Adonai,\u201d delight in the Lord\u2026 What does it mean to delight in something or someone, and how often do we do it?<\/p>\n

I read a story once, and I long ago forgot where I read it, so if you know, please tell me! It was of a man, married to a woman named Bridget. And the man\u2019s watch had engraving on it. The engraving said, \u201cDo something nice for Bridget today.\u201d<\/p>\n

I always thought that Patrick, or Seamus, or James, or some other Irish name I\u2019d given him (Yes, I assumed a monocultural marriage. I\u2019ll blame it on today’s being Patrick\u2019s Day.)…I always thought that Seamus looked at his watch every day and thought of his wife. That he did little things for her that he thought of every day because he delighted in her.<\/p>\n

Do you delight in anyone? Do you delight in the Divine? Do you look at fal\"bright<\/a>l foliage or spring flowers or untouched snow and say, \u201cWhoever invented this was a genius<\/em>?\u201d<\/p>\n

And beyond just delighting, we read that Adonai will give us the desires of our hearts.<\/p>\n

Learning the deepest desires of our heart is part of what discernment is all about, and discernment (as you may know) is one of my favorite topics. So, the \u201cdesires of your heart\u201d are important to know and understand. Quite simply, it is easier to reach goals if you have goals to reach. If you can identify the deepest desires, the hopes<\/em> of your heart, you are more likely to be able to cross the bridge and get there.<\/p>\n

Ignatius of Loyola, the founder of the Society of Jesus, the Jesuits, said that the will of God is found in the deepest desires of our hearts. And the Psalm verse says that when we delight in God, we will be given the desires of our hearts.<\/p>\n

In part, I take this to mean that discernment, part of it, is<\/em> delighting in God. That part of learning what \u201cway will open,\u201d what the \u201cwill of God\u201d is, what our \u201cvocation\u201d is, what we are to do, what are good choices, is simply to delight in the Divine.<\/p>\n

In one of the most frequently used Wiccan liturgical texts, we hear, \u201c\u2026\u00a0[L]et there be beauty and strength, power and compassion, honor and humility,\u00a0mirth and reverence<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0within you.\u201d Mirth and reverence. If awe in the face of God is the beginning of wisdom, then mirth\u2014joy, good humor, delight\u2014may be part of that wisdom, that discernment, as well.<\/p>\n

So let us delight in the Divine. And let us find there the deepest desires of our hearts.<\/p>\n

If this process interests you\u2026if you want to work on discernment and delight, I invite you to click here<\/a> and learn more about the sacred conversation, the spiritual accompaniment I offer. Perhaps we might work together to help you uncover the deepest desires of your<\/em> heart.<\/p>\n

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